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MarcoP

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Time has come to present my self.

My name is Marco, 41yo. I grow up in Sicily but I soon started traveling for studying at the age of 14 and moved to Venice at the age of 19.
I've been a dental technician for about 13 years in total and worked as such for private studies and government institutions, in Italy and Australia.

At the age of 25 I've got a virus on my very first PC and I've been learning IT since then. Today I'm a RedHat system administrator and a programmer, many says I'm a pro but i doubt it as many other programmers have way more knowledge then me. I just know my way around.

September 12, 2001 I flied to Australia for what I believed to be love, following this old dream of me. I got married and I'm father of two, a little man and a princess. Eventually 7 years later I've got divorced and was finally happy to live my life with my children without my exwife spoiling nobody's time.
At that time I was a warehouse manager (with many added responsibilities) during the day and a computer geek at night, things were great till in the 2010 an advanced carcinoma squamous changed my life, a rare case since I had it 20 years earlier then others and on a very bad spot, uncommon spot. Only one similar case to a female in the USA.
To avoid surgery I agreed to try radiotherapy, but If I knew what would have done to me I wouldn't ever agreed to it, with chemotherapy but surgery was still needed to amputate the bad tissues and surroundings.
Frequent long lasting bowel subocclusions (sometimes 2 per week) are holding me from coming back to a normal life. Since I wasn't able to work anymore and my savings were consumed by loans I had to sell and come back to Italy till I could be able to look after my self again, leaving my two children in Australia with their mum as she didn't want them to come over with me, not even for a short holiday :evil:

Some of you will now better understand why I had to build a new workstation to keep working on my old and new projects, I've also slowed down with forum posts (some of you might be happy about this :lol:) since I've picked up a new big private project.

A lot is missing, but roughly it's all here. Had a great life with no regrets, having few issues now but I will come back splendid and shiny more then ever, hopefully a better man and father. After all I have to share my experience with my children, blood of my blood, they kept my thoughts straight and recharge me from lost energies when I most needed help. Can't wait to fix my issues and go back to my children.

Well there you have it, that's part of my life ... something that bothers me is how hard it is to have to places to call home and my family being split between those.

Marco
 
I'll second that, welcome to the forum, Marco!

I have no problems with your posts, on the contrary, it's always interesting questions or good comments.
Even from start you showed great promise and you have learned a lot since you came here. And I'm sure that you will become even more proficient in the years to come.
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=60&t=21037&p=216804#p216804

Soon you'll be showing your kids a big yellow button and can teach them how to make one themselves.

Glad to have you here! 8)

Göran
 
Thanks guys, recover is slow but eventually I'm getting there :)

I was referring to my bad posts were my inexperience show up and in this field there is no room for mistakes, I self criticize my self and I'm kind hard on it and able to be criticized and learn from the. Good for my IT work and refining too I guess.

I always thought to take some time to write this post to explain more, or better, about my self but instead I wrote it on the fly and I talked more about what I did and do then actually "my self".
 
The 29th I will have surgery again and I hope to get rid of those painful days. Five years of this life brought to my knees, economically and mentally, only few things kept going: my children, the fact that quite few friends didn't make it making me believe that I have something special to do in their name, my stubbornness and for sure you guys played a big rule in keeping me busy!

Heavy drugs, morphine and such, hold me away from chemicals for obvious reasons and those days are finally about to finish. In October my new born software will undergo a presentation in Norway and I hope to be present. Anyhow, afterward I'll be able to finish my fume hood, fume scrubber and other projects half done so I can begin processing in a comfortable and safer way.

I thank you for your 360° support.

Marco
 
Thank you Dave! All done, now I have to wait to see if it's all fixed. Surgeon said it is :)

I rarely talk about my private matters, but sometimes it helps to break the tension.

Marco
 
Marco, I appreciate you taking the time to share with us. I hope you stay in good health and things work out with your children. It seems it's the most innocent that gets hurt the most when mommy and daddy can no longer live together. Thinking about you my friend.

Jeff
 

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