Echoing other comments, we need every detail, regardless of how small or inconsequential you may believe it is. It would also be helpful to know just where you got the information that got you into such a mess. Both can be helpful in sorting out this mess. Be patient. You are not likely to learn how to clean up your mess until you learn how to do several procedures correctly.
Finally, read Hoke. Refining Precious Metal Wastes is still the best primer you can get. Over 70 years old, the acquaintance experiments are just as valid today as in 1940. Many safety procedures have changed, but the language and basics are still there. Read it. Read it again. Read it again and make notes. You can find links to a few different formats in FrugalRefiners signature line.
Time for more coffee.