Two new secrets from my repertoire.
You can put the gold, filter paper and all, in hot aqua regia. The paper pulps up, acts as a filter-aid, and the solution filters rapidly. Use several small rinses to get the yellow color out of the filtered garbage. Re-drop. This time, rinse the gold in the beaker. Gold refined twice settles much better and can easily be rinsed many times without pouring any gold off. As we speak, I am doing 20 oz using this exact method, with the addition of Harold's HCl leach, of course. I'm thinking of switching to 50/50 nitric, though. With the proper precautions, of course. I really think it's a better solvent than HCl.
Although it can be very dangerous, I used to "wet ash" the gold, paper, and all, with very hot concentrated sulfuric and an occasional drop of nitric. When the nitric hits the hot sulfuric, little explosions occur - it's quite exciting. The gold comes out in basically one or two spongy pieces that are very easy to rinse. I would also imagine that this improved the purity of the gold. The more acid you are using, the more (geometrically) dangerous this is. I limited it to about 300-400 ml, which was enough to make a couple of filter papers or a good sized grasshopper disappear. I used it when a lot of dirty or fine gold was stuck to the paper. Don't try this without explicit instructions. There's more to it than I wrote.
For gold assaying purposes, I used to "wet ash" samples of ion-exchange resin. Works great.
Chris