I assume the numbers are as you say. There seems to be knowledge in the way you stated them. Also, I can see medical equipment being plated in this manner and the thicknesses seem logical.
As stated, the gold is worth about $.44/sq.in. of plated area and the Pt is about $1.80/sq.in. Very valuable buckets, or so it seems.
The gold is easily stripped in the sulfuric cell. Pt is another problem. I know of no selective stripper. I doubt if Pt will strip in the sulfuric cell. I don't think that it was in the original patent. Might be worth a try, though. It will strip palladium.
I assume the base metal is stainless. If so, you may be able to undermine the Pt plating, so that it separates from the SS, with some sort of hot acid. I have heard of 10% sulfuric, by volume, being used in this way, on gold filled watch bands. I have never tried it.
If these numbers are real, I personally wouldn't trust a refiner with them. This is just the sort of material that they could really prey upon. I would play around with them, 1 tweezer at a time, and eventually figure out how to do it. I'm sure other people can give other suggestions. There's always a way to do anything. I can think of few other ways, but most involve a lot of fumes.
Here's some other possible, but very fumey, approaches.
(1) Dissolve everything with aqua regia and drop the Pt
(2) Dissolve with aqua regia until just to the point before the solution tests for the presence of Pt. At this point, about 5%, or so, of the stainless and 100% of the Pt will be undissolved. The presence of a certain amount of stainless will prevent the Pt from dissolving. Then, what is left is dissolved in AR and the Pt is dropped.
(3) Dissolve the stainless only with, maybe, hot HCl
A refiner would melt everything and ship the bars to a copper smelter for refining. He would do this by adding at least twice the weight of copper to the melt. This would lower the melting point so he could do it in a gas furnace.
I would try the hot 10% sulfuric first. It is the least dangerous and least fumey of the bunch. If it works, it will also work on the gold, if you haven't already stripped it.
If the tweezers are made of something besides stainless, some of these methods may not work. Find out what they are made of.
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