Harold_V said:
Thanks for your comments, Oz. Unfortunately, this individual was unable to contain his anger, and posted several venomous comments. He had been admonished to not perpetuate the acrimony, but chose, instead, to focus on his dislike for me and my comments. He has been banned, with no hope of being allowed to return. Should he do so under another identity, and becomes disruptive again, he will be banned again. He is clearly not welcome on this forum, not being able to behave as an adult, insisting on getting in the last word.
Harold
although my point of view, explainations for my actions, not to mention the apologies i attempted to offer werent paid the slightest bit of attention to before...i cant help but be completely blown away by the hypocrisy this thread contains. the majority, if not all of the comments i had made were taken out of context and used as justification to commit the very same disrespectful and pointless attacks that i was accused of making during my futile attempts to maintain a little pride and dignity to move forward with....excuse me for not allowing someone to push me and beat me into submission just because they decide that my horrible decision to speak my mind lent nothing to their ability to summon some understanding for a viewpoint other than their own.
not a single one of my comments were "venomous", yet, there was no way anything i said, no matter how submissive or apologetic was going to be read for what it was or noted in any sort of constructive way.
in no way did i disagree with the original point made in the first posts on this page, in fact, it was quite the opposite...what i DIDNT agree with, which was the cause for my comment, was the attitude behind the words...and i just basically wanted to mention that he had been here for awhile already and likely understood that they shouldnt dare ask any questions...look what happens when someone says the wrong thing?
i wasnt defending him, didnt think they needed it...im just tired of the members here being so quick to tell someone who happens to greet you, to not ask any questions before they learn...maybe some of us KNOW that?...what kind of a forum is this when new people who come here to learn from you are basically told theres a waiting period and dues they have to pay before they are good enough to speak to you AT ALL?? your point behind that is understood, the reasons make sense...but seems to me like some people are being treated with a lack of respect...or friendliness at least...seems that way sometimes, and that sucks for whoever may be on the receiving end. the VERY first thing people get to hear is "you arent going to accomplish that by asking questions."....when no question was even asked? it very easily can be taken a certain way...im sorry i was stupid enough to say anything about it, but the point is made. its rude, presumptuous, and unwelcoming. kick me off the forum for calling you out on it and not sitting quietly when threats of expulsion are instantly thrown around because you decide to overreact?? so be it!
this is a total waste of time, as unfortunate as it may be....i dont lick boots so good, nor do i sit back and allow someone to poke at me with provocations immediately after threatening my membership in this forum...i had an unpopular opinion and made a poor choice in voicing it, that was all. i wouldve hoped that my reasoning behind all of this and the attempts at salvation couldve been received with at least some reservation of judgement...but no, i shouldve allowed myself to be publicly humiliated and misunderstood while they have a field day making an example of me, even after i had shown a willingness to relent and acknowledge the mistake i had made....and now it continues in my absence, not to mention in the absence of the posts in question...convenient how this entire fiasco has been so easily and willingly deleted, before having a chance to be looked at subjectively after cooler heads have prevailed. i wasnt given that chance, not while being allowed to maintain some dignity in the end...thanks for that, and thank you harold for being so insulting towards someone who without hesitation proclaimed an unwavering respect for you. its just a shame that i dont have the ability to keep quiet and bow down while someone freely insults my integrity, intelligence and ability to coexist with the members here.
clearly not welcome here?? doesnt seem like some people are welcome here to begin with...dont write me off as somene who just likes to create drama because im bored. when i get bored, im too busy reading your posts to even think about starting drama...i really am shocked at what has happened here...what i said served no purpose, therefore i regret it...but nothing can be done about that now...haha, youre right, im not too bright if im going to think this will even be read by anyone at this point, much less taken with any level of seriousness...i should have my head examined for typing all this.