litharge or lead oxide is used in flux to almagam with gold and silver, usually used in assaying to collect the gold into a button of lead, the base metals go into the melted crushed glass as usually a brown red slag, the borax helps as flux and to help keep it to a pourable mix (liquid when hot), the flour can help base metals from oxides burning off as carbon dioxide, the washing soda helps keep alkaline, this may work to collect the values but temperatures will be the deciding factor, because you will need to get the flux hot enough to melt but not melt the cast iron, maybe bury bottom of spoon of laddle in sand and heat excess flux with torch till glass melts trying to cncentrate heat on flux, not laddle stirring and scratching bottom with stick or carbon, till cast iron red hot but not melting pouring off to flux letting cool, crush glass flux watching for bead of lead cuple the lead button in bone ash cuple to recover gold button. like I said only something to ponder.
cast iron with high silicone content in older times was used to distill concentrated sulfuric or concentrated nitric acid, the weaker dilute acid apparently attacks it more than concentrated acids.
also usually cast iron laddles have a heavy oxidized coating so maybe your metals are just stuck to this coating and not actually almagamed with iron, this oxidized coating and your gold may be able to be removed saving the tool, someone mentioned dremel tool.
with Hcl/bleach it will take surface of gold off pretty quick off glass gold items, brush helps, also high bleach oxidixer, but only surface layer each brushing, so if gold was thick this might not be best choice, but if fine layer it maybe,
electrolisis in concentrated sulfuric, maybe copper cathode and only using inner cup of laddle to hold acid, the iron as anode may work good as surface iron will also try to plate to cathode cleaning laddle, also if after gold is removed the iron could be retored by electrolisis,
http://www.rustyiron.com/engines/electrolysis/index.html
http://www.rutherfordcountyboys.50megs.com/custom4.html
sometimes you look at your options, what you have and try and decide the best approach to try
I was just spouting ideas to things (edit : to think ) about.