I agree that Deano will know more about this topic for sure. From reading your post it seems you are having trouble capturing all of the gold in the carbon rather than recovering all of the gold from the carbon.
This thread is specifically about recovering beads from slag and your question is really not about gold in slags. I suggest you start a new thread and name it appropriately so it can be referenced in the future based on the thread title. I have no doubt you will receive valuable advice here and it would be best if future members can find it based on the title.