Assol,
We are here to help you, the first thing I suggest is putting away the nitric acid, and any other chemicals, there are many dangers you are unaware of.
If you truely wish to learn these skill plan on spending years of hard work and study, this is not something you can watch a video and learn. it is not something someone can " walk you through" these are skills of the chemistry of metals that take time to learn and understand, there are many dangers, deadly gases, to even explosion of glass ware full of hot acids, nothing we do could be called safe if done by someone without self education of the dangers involved.
Start with safety, and leaning how to deal with waste, then move on to a study of how to mechanically seperate the gold from the trash and the other base metals.
Here are a few links to get you started:
New member, wheres the gold GRF Help!
Where to begin?
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewforum.php?f=47
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=47&t=1300
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=47&t=3781
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewforum.php?f=85
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?t=42
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=70&t=4646
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=33&t=796
http://au-prospecting.com/gr/gr.html
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?t=562
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=60&t=5604
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=52&t=9349
http://goldrecovery.us/forum_search.asp
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=54&t=19798
http://www.public.asu.edu/~jpbirk/qual/qualanal/catprop.html
http://www.public.asu.edu/~jpbirk/qual/qualanal/confirm.htm
http://www.goldnscrap.com/
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?p=6873#6873
http://goldrefiningforum.com/phpBB3/viewtopic.php?f=39&t=25975&p=276043#p276043
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDHrA-OG_a8