brjook,
I do not know the answer to your question.
Here what I think, that seems like a lot of metal powder for what little you have processed to be a metal with a high value (110 grams of cheap gold fill glass frames), glass frames can be made from many, different metals. Some alloys fairly exotic, to make small wire frame flexible, strong, resistant to constant corrosive environments (worn of sweaty face, handled with corrosive solutions on hands and so on), I wont go on you get the idea, the gold fill, or plating may not only be for looks, but also to keep metals in the glasses from leaving green marks on your face from wearing a corroded pair of glasses.
Other metals like tungsten, titanium are possibly used.
To me as I have said I doubt you would find much Pgm, although maybe palladium but I do not know for sure,
I would look up the information of what metals glass frames are made from, look up the acid resistant metals (like titanium, tungsten) and find tests for these, you already know some of the acids (and conditions) this metal did not dissolve in, you may be able to narrow down the possibility’s of this mystery metal, There are tests for most any metal (but sometimes the test, or chemical, or procedure may not be worth time or expense to follow through with to find out)
If your still bent on believing you have some very rare precious metal there are very simple tests to find out, putting these metals into solution is usually the first step (well if these powders did not dissolve in boiling hot aqua regia, that has already eliminated several PGM's, did not dissolve in nitric eliminates silver or palladium, very doubtful it is Rh, Ir. Os on cheap glass frames (but you could go to the trouble of proving me wrong).
I say it would be a waste of time to pursue further, unless curiosity just will not let you quit, but remember curiosity killed the cat but also can be a great learning tool.
Here is something I would try, add 30% hydrogen peroxide to these metal flakes and then 32% HCl and heat, when peroxide quits reacting vapor off water (formed in reaction) to concentrate, if metals not dissolved when acid concentrates add more 30% H2O2, and see if these metal powders will dissolve.