I have seen pyrite in our river sand that looks like half the sand is gold, you can find gold in any stream and river here, as I live in a region rich in its history of gold production, most new miner mistake pyrite for gold, it is very easy to tell the difference, you would not need an assay, just a little education, pyrite can come in several forms but usually small soft flake that you can smash to pieces or smear to powder with the flat of your pocket knife, or pyrite crystals that will break when crushed, Gold is malleable and will flatten when hammered without falling apart, pyrite is brittle, gold will also be much heavier, Pyrite is light and will pan out of your pan before the black sand, gold will stay in the pan after you pan off black sand, gold is not plentiful (even in rich bearing areas) (although you can hit good pockets), pyrite is very plentiful around here it is everywhere we have decomposed granite with mountains of about half pyrite. if roasted pyrite will change colors, you will smell SO2 gas burning off, placer gold will not burn off sulfur compounds.
Try this in a gold pan, put a few small pieces of lead say (similar in size to your gold), throw in a hand full of sand, some of the gold your panning, a small piece or two will do, a handful of gravel and bigger rocks up to fist size would be ok, now have a big tub of water, practice panning, pan your material into the tub, nothing is lost in the tub, the pyrite will pan of first with the bulk of the material, you should end up with some black sand, your lead and any gold in the pan, now panning carefully you can remove the black sand from the lead and gold, if you lost lead into your tub you need to practice your technique, when you can keep all of the lead in the pan your keeping your gold, lead is a bit lighter than gold and will pan off before your gold.
Placer gold will melt to a button that can be hammered flat, pyrite will not.
I am assuming you are dealing with placer gold.
Hokes book is a good source to begin your study on recovery and refining your gold, we can give you some tips once you get a better understanding of the basics.
P.S. I sure hope them jars are full of gold.
But I also learned hopes do not pay the bills.