Spunky1 said:
Well, melting was no success. Tried various ways, plain,borax, Chapman flux and nothing. Plain, just smoked some til almost gone. Borax it all went into slag.
It's tough to suggest a solution with such a minimal description of the results of your smelting/melting attempts. However, here are some thoughts.
I can't speak to the appropriateness of using oxalic acid and your process. Ive never worked with butyl diglyme. However, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that your process makes sense.
Firstly, if you dropped material from solutionn using oxalic acid, the dropped material should be clean gold powder, correct? If so, you should be able to take a small bit, drop it into a melting dish, and melt it a bit with a gentle flame from a propane torch. This will not melt the powder into a button, but you should be able to melt bits of the powder enough to see grains of yellow, shinny gold under magnification. If this doesn't work, then you probably don't have gold.
If you pass the above sanity check, then you have clean gold powder. You do not need to smelt this powder using something like chapmans flux. Chapmans and other such fluxes are used to induce specific chemical reactions that are required to give you metallic gold at the bottom of your crucible when you are done. Choice of flux depends on composition of the material that you are attempting to smelt gold from.
Clean gold powder just needs to be melted. Many people use borax as a flux for this. In this scenario, the reason for using borax is that it helps prevent you from vaporizing very fine gold powder when attempting to melt the gold. There are many videos online showing examples of this process.
If you have gold and you are having difficulty melting it, then others can offer better suggestions if you provide very detailed descriptions of each of your steps, what you expected to have at the end of each of those steps, and what you actually ended up with. Pictures help a lot.