crazyman said:
I agree, I wish my mind still worked like that. I posted my problem previously. I was very successful in my endeavors pre 2008. I once could process what I read, now its one thing at a time.
It's that way for all of us. Really!
Refining isn't difficult---I often commented that I could teach a monkey to refine. What is difficult is knowing what to do, and when it should be done. That's the purpose in reading. If you read these things enough times, they'll sink in. I say this because I'm of such a nature that I "don't get it" quite often. It takes repetition for me to get a grasp on things----and constant guidance. I got mine from Hoke's book, as well as other journals. I had to spend considerable time studying before I achieved success, and even then it was a struggle.
I know you are a well educated man Harold
My sincere appreciation for your kind words, but please understand that I am not (formally) educated, although I was fortunate to graduate from high school. I have almost no further education (a quarter each of math and chemistry). I have related my circumstances on many occasions. I was a miserable student that never cracked a book, and barely passed classes, with which I had little interest, with D grades. Nothing would build a fire under me that was strong enough to encourage me to pursue my studies as I should have. I am, for all practical purposes, a moron. :shock:
What I do have is a strong will and a desire to accomplish tasks---which is what I believe you and I share. Just as I achieved my goals, so, too, can you. Just be patient with the board, and do your homework. Once it starts making sense, it, more or less, cascades and starts falling in place. You CAN achieve your goal.
You simply must be patient.
as was I, they tell me I was a mine safety inspector, I have no recolection, its horrible to need to have instruction on simple tasks. That's why I needed special help.
I, for one, am more than willing to provide the help (assuming I am able). The problem is, it's akin to giving sheet music to one that can't read music. When the processes become familiar (thanks to constant reading) and the terms become commonplace, instructions will begin to take on meaning.
Nor do I remember many things pre 2008. Thank you Harold for reminding me that I just can't do things that requires retention in the memory center. I am sorry and blame God for making people see me differently than pre2008. I just can't do it!! I need to just get out a jigsaw puzzle. Thank you Harold and Geo for sharing your knowledge on a 12 year olds capacity of learning.
That's all very unfortunate, but, please, don't take that attitude. You can do it. You simply must give yourself time to gather the required bits of knowledge that make it happen. You are fortunate to have this forum at your disposal. Many of us, here, are willing to go the extra mile, in particular if an individual has problems---but it begins with the individual doing his level best---applying one's time to study--becoming familiar with terms---so that guidance offered is useful. If we bombard you with all of the processes, you won't be able to sort those that apply from those that don't.
Be patient--and keep applying yourself to your project through research. When the time comes to attempt recovery, you'll have the required tools to do so. If you jump prematurely, there will be no end to questionable results, and you won't have enough knowledge to interpret what you're seeing.
Please trust me on this issue.
Harold