When you're finished completing the mess you made, do yourself a favor and MARK/LABEL your containers. Baking Soda, SMB, Borax, Urea, Sodium Hydroxide look very similar and you can easily add something you're not supposed to add.
With the above said, do yourself another favor and study more because if you're refining at the level you're confident at, then you should already know that you do not need to use Urea. I still have a 5 lb bag from 3 years ago. I used it once, and after my learning experience with refining got better, I learned that it's not needed. The main thing you need to know is that you have to add nitric acid slowly, and in increments, just enough to do the job. If you do that, then you won't need urea.
Also, when you have made your AR and it stops working, or even if you know your items are dissolved, do NOT add water to the solution. If you are not completed in dissolving your material, then all you would really need to add is some more nitric acid in small increments, and make sure you add it to the hot plate. The only time I would use water (rarely) to my finished solution is if it's thick like syrup or if I want to make sure I thin out the solution to drop the gold with SMB. But, like I said, that's very rare I would even consider it.
Your baking soda is only needed in case of accidental spills and breaches and AFTER you've dropped all your gold and tested it with stannous to make sure no gold is detected. Other than that, keep that baking soda away from your refining powders you're using.
But when it's all said and done, you MUST LABEL your containers because what you did you could have poured the wrong powder in your solution and you could have done something more deadly than what you're already doing.
Your best bet would be to add copper to the solution and let it sit there for a few days. Some processes aren't a 1 day process, and especially if you've made a mistake during the process.
Keep reading the forum and I hope you've downloaded and read Hoke's book.
Be safe.
Added Info.... I forgot to mention that if this will be your last attempt at refining 14K, then you need to quit while you're ahead. The only way you'll learn is to do, and "WHEN" you make mistakes, you have to LEARN from them, and then keep moving on. This is no get-rich quick scheme when it comes to refining. You must have knowledge and patience in order to do this to a satisfactory point. ask every single person here and I'll tell you right now they'll ALL tell you the mistakes they made and how many times of the same and (or) similar mistakes. It happens. Yet, the point is that you learn from it and move forward to better your knowledge in refining. Just last week I made a mistake by not folding some copper mesh in my sulfuric cell and wasted most of my copper. Folding was something I always did, but for some reason this time, I forgot. So, it happens, and even to some of us that have refined for a few years.