The tumbler plants also do not heat the solution. A heated dissolve allows free nitric to "burn off" and you can heat it until it stops blowing red fumes as an indication. You do not have this option.
You will have to rely on slow additions which allow the urea to work. Too much can cause excessive crystallization and hold up gold in the crystals. I assume you are adding the urea and dropping the gold in one of these?
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you should slowly add urea and allow it to mix in. It will foam up violently with excessive additions. Add a little and wait for a reaction to subside. Then add a little more and wait. When you have added enough you will see the prills of urea start to float. That is when you stop.
Next you add the metabisulfite, again slowly with mixing. If the solution starts to blow red fumes that is only the excess free nitric acid burning off as the gold you just dropped re-dissolves. Not a problem, these slow additions will consume all of the free nitric and then the gold will drop and stay dropped.
If the gold alloy was from jewelry or had a percentage of copper in it the acid will be a green color. When there is gold in solution it affects the color and it starts out a brighter green and when the gold is out it is a dull green. Seeing this is something you learn and observe from doing it often enough, it never takes the place of testing with stannous chloride. When all of the gold is dropped, and your stannous chloride test is negative, the solution is dropped out the bottom of the vessel into the filter trolley to separate the gold from the spent acid.
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When the filter removes all of the liquid the gold should look like this.