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Try this experiment in a small beaker (50ml) on a coffee cup warmer, or hot plate in a corning dish...
Add 1 gram of gold (powder, flakes, shot...).
Add 4ml HCl (little more would do no harm),(noting that one teaspoon of a solution is around 5ml).
Now we can expect to use up to 1ml of nitric to put the gold into solution,(noting about 20 drops of nitric is around 1ml) this in most cases would give us an excess of nitric acid which in some cases we may need to get the shot or larger pieces of gold into solution with a high loss of the nitric as gases evolving from solution.
Add HNO3 by few drops giving time for the reaction to slow.
Adding heat to warm the solution will help to drive off the water (water from the acids used and any produced in a chemical reaction), this will also help to consume the nitric used, increasing its ability to dissolve the gold, as it concentrates the solution.
{Here you can do some experimenting, try a stannous test (where you know you have some gold in solution), and after you add a few drops of nitric, Now with free nitric (the test would be negative as the gold cannot be reduced in the test). Now heat the solution a while letting the nitric getting consumed dissolving gold, with some gold still left undissolved after concentrating the solution take another reading with stannous chloride, with the free nitric consumed the test should show positive...}
Now remembering we only had a gram of gold in about a spoonful of aqua regia.
We can continue to periodically add drops along with using heat, until almost all of the gold is in solution.
We want to stop using nitric when we have a little gold left undissolved, with the heat we can normally finish consuming the gold and the free nitric...
At this point you may already have a concentrated gold chloride solution (almost red), if not concentrating the spoonful of liquid will most likely finish consuming the gold with just the heat of evaporation.
Using heat and a gold button to de-NOx a solution was Harold's trick, Here we are using the last portion of our undissolved gold to de-NOx the solution before we finish dissolving it...
With gold in solution and minimal nitric usage, add a few drops of HCl to the warmed concentrated solution, paying close attention to any red fumes of NOx, let it sit to evaporate the water from the few drops of acid you just added, and then try another few drops of HCl watching for the red cloud, after that water evaporates and the solution re -concentrates, after the third evaporation and HCl cycle, and no more indication of NOx evolution, you can take another stannous chloride test, (if free nitric the test may show negative for gold, or may show positive Purple of Cassius and then disappear to a negative for gold), (if the free nitric is consumed and the gold chloride solution is de-NOxed the test will show positive as the gold can now be reduced from solution using your choice of reducing agent...
Try a few different expieriments to gain a better understanding (and you can always scale up), but doing things in small experiments can teach you much, and not make such a big mess......
Do small experiments as Hoke taught in her book to get acquainted...
Do a few more experiments of your own, you can take some of the gold chloride solutions as a reagent to verify the effectiveness of your SnCl2.
Add some excess nitric to a sample of the gold chloride, do some other experiments with urea, sulfamic acid, different reducing agents...
In a spot plate test dish try testing the solutions with different reagents, for example, the Stannous chloride (will not de-NOx the solution your testing for gold) while in another spot of the dish copperas will de-Nox the solution as it tests for gold.
Using FeSO4 is helpful to precipitate where NOx gases or some free nitric is an issue, although SMB can overcome some NOx in the solution if the excess of reagent is used, it is not helpful where free nitric is involved...
You are only limited by your imagination and your test-tubes...