Renstilsken, you got off to a rough start here by discussing alchemy. Even after you were told we don't discuss that here, you asked more questions about a company and a person who are clearly involved in alchemy. As a result of that thread, another member started talking about some related beliefs about the "unknown powers" of precious metals, and when he got upset about being told not to discuss such things, he got beligerant and ultimately got banned.
You've criticized butcher's comments to you because he doesn't teach like you do in your career. You help your students because you felt a calling to teach and it is your job. Unlike your position as a teacher, no one here gets paid. Everyone here, including the moderators, volunteers their time. Please note that the members whose names are green (like butcher) are moderators. Our responsibility is to keep the forum running smoothly, and one of the ways we do that is by discouraging non-productive discussions, like alchemy.
Your profile says your country of origin is the US, but your writing indicates otherwise. That's OK, as this is an international forum with many members for whom English is not their first language. We try to be sympathetic with those members, as we know it is difficult for them to both study what is here and to communicate with the rest of us. Perhaps we would be more understanding of your difficulty with English if we knew a little more about your background.
You've said a couple of times that if members don't want to answer your questions, they should ignore them. Perhaps it's partly because of the language barrier, but those comments have been somewhat rude. I would offer you the same advice. If you don't like an answer you get, the best thing would be to say thank you for taking the time to reply and move on. Continuing to tell people here how they are allowed to respond to you will not gain you any friends.
This forum is like a huge college library that has no librarians. What is worse is that it is like the library got hit by a tornado. The books have been scattered about, and in many cases pages have been ripped from the books. It is up to you to spend the time looking around to find what you're interested in. The rest of us are wandering around in the same library, studying as we go. It's OK to ask a few questions about where you might find information, but if you keep telling us that we need to answer you the way you want to be answered, you'll quickly find no one wants to talk to you, and you'll probably be asked to leave the library. It took me about a year and a half to read everything here. If you don't have the time to do that, you may find you don't like it here.
Many members have gotten off to a rough start here, but have gone on to become valuable members of the forum. It's all up to you. If you want to devote the time to study what's here, you'll find all the answers you seek. If you can't, you might want to ask if someone wants to consult for you, but it will come at a cost.
I wish you luck in your studies.
Dave