The copper flotation method that I am familiar with involved using a lime slurry and an oil to froth and float the copper. I find it hard to believe that after all of the efforts went into pulping the copper ore, especially 5 million tons, that they never noticed the gold and silver. Tailings piles are one of those things that are hard to sample representatively. I suppose if you had a bobcat bucket loader and spent a day digging and moving and collecting loads from around the pile, then you coned and quartered it, you MAY get lucky enough to have a sample that represents the pile. Still it isn't a certainty. Usually guys that sell tailings piles learned their trade from the guy who was trying to sell that bridge in Brooklyn. Your first question to the seller is this; How did you get the 4 kg sample, and how do you know the entire pile is like that sample? Generally, for some miraculous reason I could never understand, the samples always have gold in them. The big pile is another question.
Concerning your math, you are correct, that the material IF IT IS CONSISTENT THROUGHOUT THE PILE will yield over one ounce per ton of gold. Commercial ventures involving excavating, crushing and leaching have prospered on lower yields per ton, so it begs the question; Why are they marketing it to a newcomer to the industry when larger concerns, with capital to extract the metals and experience to do it would also be interested?
That bridge in Brooklyn is still on the market!
I just noticed this as well, the photo you included shows solid metal. If the assay extracted the metals they would be in sponge form and usually the silver would have been calculated by difference. I've never seen or heard of anyone melting that small a quantity of gold, and the guy who did it for you even separated the silver and melted it as well. It's good that you are asking questions, now go ask a few of the seller and the assayer and let us know what they say.