goldenhaha, I'm not sure I understand your post or your feelings about the forum.
Why do you think people think you're rude and hateful? You've been a member for over a year, but you really just started posting in the last couple of weeks. I've reviewed all your posts. Some showed some insight. Others seemed unnecessarily negative. Starting your post with such a negative statement seems to invite criticism. Why not just say what's on your mind without the preface?
You say you're the voice of reason. Then, the rest of your post just seems to ridicule members who may have bought this product hoping to find an "eco-friendly" solution to stripping gold plate. It's very easy to make fun of others, but do you have something constructive to offer? While I agree that thorough research is preferred before jumping in the deep end of the pool, we're here to help, not to make fun of those who jumped in too soon.
I'm trying to understand the purpose of some of your posts. If you just want to throw stones, you're not going to make many friends here. If you have some helpful advice to offer, I'm sure our members will appreciate it.
Personally, I get PMs from people with thousands of posts and people with no posts. I try my best to help them all.
Dave