Litharge (lead oxide) is a good collecter. As it is finely divided. As heat rises,this act as bombardment of fine sprinkles to collect the metals.
For gold, when litharge convert to metal, it absorb gold,
So chemistry happens inside crucible and you have to understand that.
Here is math, if I am wrong, experts can correct.
Litharge(pbo) is actually 92.8 percent of pb.
FFurther you can read
https://goldrefiningforum.com/threads/lead-or-lead-oxide-for-collector-metal.31705/
By the way, you iron in ore can also work as collecter if it's not oxidise to slag.
Edit for some more answers
Foaming is normal in smelt. Try to use flourspar, thinning agent, little hard on crucibles. Check the quantity of litharge. Avoid excess use of litharge than required.
There is no such indication that shows you that melt is complete.
When melt is liquidy, stire to check it if there is anything solid present. Also check on stirer rod tip if melt is liqued or still drops are falling like oil drops. 1 to 2 hours are good time after whole stuff melted.
A good stirring occasionally, is worth