Not laughing, just shaking my head in disbelief. At least you realized the problem and made the most important step to seek help.
As Dave pointed out, safety first! Dissolved metals can be absorbed through the skin so no more handling the acid products without gloves. And don't breath the fumes! I hope you did your experiments outside and not in a closed room.
Read this after you have read up on safety. http://goldrefiningwiki.com/mediawiki/index.php/Making_a_mess (including the links at the bottom).
Next you should also read up on waste treatment.
And remember, if you get some scolding it's not because we are mean, we just want you and people around you to be safe.
As long as you don't pour out any liquid or throw away any solids any gold you started with is still there, it's just a matter of finding it and extracting it.
You mentioned a number of stuff you put into your aqua regia, can you put some numbers on it like kilos, number of CPU:s, liters of HCl and HNO3 used... (or pounds, oz or the like). That way we might get a better picture of your mess.
Don't panic, there is no rush to test a lot of stuff. Do any testing with small amounts and if it works then you can start treating the bulk. And test, test and test with stannous to follow your gold.
Göran