With a torch the gold and iron and other metals in the stainless steel will melt together and actually make it harder to get your gold off, when two metals are melted together one metal can dissolve the other metal into the melt, the melting point of these metals change, as they are no longer a single metal but form an alloy of metals with a different melting point than any of the metals involved, when they solder components on circuit boards the solder has a very low melting point, and gold has a very high melting point, but if soldering gold plated copper pins the solder at around 700 deg F will dissolve some gold into the solder.
Others may be able to explain this better,
If this would work we could just melt and separate metals by their melting or freezing points of molten metals, or melt skim off the lighter or easier melted metals, or cool the melt to a bar and cut this bar at the point where the metals separated by density or when cooling to solid at different temperature (which will not work either).
Actually I do not think we would have the alloys we have if this would work, as metals can also have different boiling points and if these did not change when melting we would probably boil off the easier melted metal by the time the higher melting metal became molten, and would not be able to form an alloy, or the metals in the alloy would separate as they cooled and then we would not have an alloy, but a worthless tool that is too soft on one end, brittle in the middle, and so hard on the other end it would shatter if struck on something, then we would have never have been able to make bronze swords, or other tools and history would be much different.