Interesting discussion.
Just some added info here:
1. The classical wheel weight alloy is lead-antimony (antimony is a hardener). These alloys are less corrosive than pure lead - like any solvent, its solvating power goes down as the amount of solutes in it increases. Lead antimony alloys have a lower melting point than pure lead, although since the alloy is typically <1% antimony, the freezing point depression is only a few degrees. Of course, wheel weights contain lots of junk, so your mileage may vary...
2. Aluminum is only sparingly soluble in lead. The reverse is also generally true - lead is only sparingly soluble in aluminum. Lead is added to aluminum alloys to make "free machining" alloys. It works because the lead doesn't dissolve, but rather forms little islands that are soft and allow chips to break. Think of oil in vinegar (a dispersion of droplets) rather than salt in vinegar (true solution). The free machining alloys are actually aluminum-lead-bismuth alloys, with the bismuth helping to disperse the lead.
It takes exceptional efforts to "dissolve" lead in aluminum - typically very special aluminum-tin alloys with extensive processing. In the molten state, aluminum and lead don't even mix effectively.
3. If you have ever cast bullets, you will find that a lot of molds are cast aluminum. Some are also brass (which you would imagine would "stick" to lead, but again, at the typical casting temp it doesn't). Some (usually older ones) are cast iron. For modern consumer molds, the vast majority are aluminum.
4. I have cast lead alloy plates on a modified cookie sheet, which is also aluminum. This was mainly because I wanted something quickly and didn't have the materials to make a proper mold. It works. I don't know about aluminum siding, however - it seems too thin to me. An old cookie sheet is quite thick in comparison. You should also, ALWAYS, have a secondary containment system in case your mold fails. This is true of all molds. Anything can fail at any time - this is why we always have to think about failure and have a secondary system to contain the spill. There is never any excuse to have "molten lead in your shoes."
5. Release isn't much of an issue if the mold is smooth. If you have concerns or complex profiles (deep ridges and such) then boron nitride works well but may be overkill. I have literally greased molds with coconut oil and gotten very good results, although the mold is preheated to a couple hundred degrees, and is EXTREMELY well ventilated, as it will burn or smoke. Classically, in old lead smelters people used to coat runners and cold pots with tar to assist in lead flow and avoid sticking for cold runners (hot runners, where the lead might be 800-1000 celsius, are often water cooled and don't have sticking issues since the lead has very low viscosity at those temps).
As I suggest, commercially people use steel or iron molds for casting lead anodes , such as for a Betts Lead Electrorefining plant, or for a zinc electrowinning facility. Of course, these plants cast hundreds of large anodes a day. It is unlikely the OP will be casting hundreds of anodes in his lifetime. So, if you control your melt temperature, I suggest aluminum alloys can make acceptable mold materials. However, I would personally never use something as flimsy as house siding or flashing.
Best Regards, Gerald