All I can say reading your post is that you are attempting too many things at once.
Slow down and go for the easy material first, mixing different recoveries is fine if you know what to do to refine them, I'm not picking on you, I want you to succeed, but your using far too advanced techniques for your experience, stick to the basics like using SMB or ferrous to precipitate your gold, once you can do this without a problem look for other methods if you need them, which I doubt you will.
Read Hoke her book is for people like you and I, non chemists with little understanding of exactly what's occuring, I ran my own refinery for years and still don't fully understand the whys or how's but I know what works, when I started I didn't even have access to the forum or Hoke, I learnt the same way you are, and I'll tell you it's expensive and frustrating, you learn because it's costing you money and time but there is an easier way, read Hoke to gain a basic understanding, follow her methods and it's easy, when you have that off pat start reading on the forum, it's full of advice from the smartest people in the world concerning recovery and refining, better still it's free.
Dump the chemicals and start to read and learn, you can't do this without knowing what's going to happen or could possibly happen and if things go wrong how to correct them, it's not hard once you know.
Please read, please show us your first button, we all want you to be here in 10 years advising others with what you have learnt... You can do this.