Good advice PantherLiker about having a standard gold solution.
The Q-Tip which has had a drop of stannous on it is showing a somewhat black color. Mine always show a very black color, but that's because of the concentration I make them. I always test my stannous chloride against a known (store purchased 1%) gold chloride solution. A drop the gold chloride on a Q-Tip and then a drop of my stannous on it and it turns a very deep, dark black. I know my stannous is not made exactly according to the way others make it, but it works very good for me. If I saw a Q-Tip like the one you have, I wouldn't think there was enough gold in the sample to make recovering it practical.
Make a guess as to how much gold you have, and then use a very small excess of chemicals to dissolve it. Let it sit somewhere safe out of doors where it won't be disturbed overnight. By the next day, the gold should be dissolved. Then, test your solution with stannous.
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